What is Explosive Sexual Healing anyway?
My husband and I have developed a system called Explosive Sexual Healing (ESH) that combines hypnotherapy & reiki with sexological bodywork (G-spot orgasm specifically) and operates under the principle that such an intense release may facilitate in the easing of symptoms of everything from sexual trauma and depression to migraines and chronic pain. The unique combination of hypnotherapy, reiki, and sexological bodywork used together simultaneously is a phenomenally effective modality because it works with the body, mind and soul at the same time. What we’ve noticed is that a woman’s blocks to having a FULL release
(several steps beyond the average orgasm), are the same blocks she has to getting what she wants out of life. We know we’ve cleared those blocks once our client achieves full release, and then she can take these new tools out into the world and receive what is now available to her. If she has trouble relaxing and receiving in orgasm, we help her through that so she can relax and receive in life. If she has trouble letting her voice out in orgasm, we help her through that so she can better express herself in her life. In what areas could you be more expressive? Where could you stand to relax and receive a little more?
Read this article about ESH in Elephant Journal (please disregard the prices in the article as they have changed since the time it was written).
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PET scans show that several areas of the brain goes offline during orgasm, including the parts that have to do with fear & anxiety, the parts that limit pleasure, the parts that are concerned with what others think about you, and the parts that have to do with what you think about yourself. All the client’s personas and all the walls that she has built up to keep her “safe” (Stuck) disappear into the ecstasy of orgasm so that she can be healed, taking her life to a level she had always hoped was available to her. The results of the brain’s reaction to the cocktail of chemicals released in orgasm is a profound state of trance that opens up a brief window of unlimited possibilities where explosive sexual energy cleanses the body and transforms the client.
Why the G-spot?
Ben focuses on the G-spot for a couple reasons. The G-spot allows for an explosive orgasm that can induce female ejaculation, and lasts 5-30 minutes as opposed to the 10-20 second clitoral orgasm. A 15-30 minute orgasm gives sufficient time to be able to get in all the post-hypnotic suggestions (affirmations) in this natural state of orgasmic trance. The G-spot is actually considered the urethral sponge, and like any sponge, it holds stuff that needs to be “wrung out.” Many kinds of traumas or negative emotions or tensions gets stored in the clitoral sponge, and it’s often a shock to notice what kind of emotions and/or memories arise. Bringing to the surface all the junk that has been locked away unconsciously, allows it to be released in a safe, secure environment, so that it can then be replaced with something more useful such as power and confidence.
The woo woo stuff.
ESH is an all encompassing modality that wholes and unites the physical body, mind, and spirit. As a Reiki Master and Intuitive Clairvoyant Counselor, it has been my honor to be an integral part of the process of many life transformations. In my experience with clients, as well as my personal experience,the lower chakras (root, sacral, and solar plexus) are typically the most challenging to clear on an etheric level, particularly in women. As a trusted healer of women, and as a dedicated self healer, it quickly became my passion to find a way to resolve these blocks.
Shortly after meeting Ben, I realized that I had inadvertently found the missing puzzle piece. We found that by combining my experience of reiki chakra clearing and balancing with his expertise of extended G-Spot orgasm and hypno-therapeutic affirmations during orgasm, the results amplified dramatically. This combination of modalities has created efficient, long lasting results for many women (myself included) in a real, measurable way. It seems like nothing short of a miracle.
Why is ESH important for women in our society?
Why are the lower chakras so blocked, dense and difficult to cleanse? In my experience with my reiki practice, many factors have contributed. Our current culture is predominantly male dominated with an underlying subconscious belief in “survival of the fittest” that values competition. Females are told from a young age that to be feminine is a weakness. As a result, many deny feminine intuition, mistakenly believing it is silly or even crazy. Modern culture insidiously suppresses sacred femininity, sexual desires and pleasures. Most advertisers believe that “sex sells,” the underlying message that females often receive is that their bodies are only to serve males’ sexual desires and that they should ignore the physical and emotional needs of their sacred bodies. Women are often in-sinuously shamed to control our emotions so as not to create public embarrassment.
These disharmonious emotional beliefs, combined with cultural/religious shaming of sexuality, familial/DNA cords, and present and past life sexual and emotional abuse, result in heavy, dense blockages in the lower chakras. The blocked lower chakras, when left uncleared for a period of time, transfer to the physical body. Unfortunately, it seems to be the “norm” to have clogged, slow lower chakras. These disharmonious thoughts eventually reach the etheric and physical bodies, resulting in disharmony and in the body. This manifests in various ways, as females subconsciously reject the feminine processes, resulting in dis-eases such as pms, ovarian dysfunction, breast cancer, lack of arousal and pleasure, inability to become pregnant, painful pregnancy, and miscarriage; to name a few. The list seems endless.
Many females are taught to believe that PMS is normal, that menstruation should be painful, that 2/3 of women are incapable of G(Goddess) Spot orgasm, and that menopause necessitates hormone therapy. Often, female clients suffer from ovarian cysts or polyps, irregular menstrual cycles, and STDs, and are convinced that “its just the way it is” or even worse; that the experience of pain is “just part of being a woman”. This is a mass cultural lie that has been “sold” to women. ESH dissolves this thought process by replacing old thought patterns and healing the emotional, etheric, and physical body from the inside out. Literally and Truly.
Reclaim your body. Reclaim your soul.
ESH allows women to take back their divine birthright of the sacred, beautiful, natural processes of their bodies. As women receive their bodies, they recover their natural state of intuition and power. This return to the sacredness of the divine feminine will balance the masculine energy of the earth and will result in world-wide healing.
ESH enables and empowers all women to return to their natural state of balance and harmony with their bodies.
As the root chakra is restored to the physical and etheric planes, grounding and stability is returned to the body. Women feel safe, surefooted, strong, and secure in their environment. As a result, life purpose and career naturally succeed, finances improve, life at home becomes balanced, as all emotional and etheric needs are met. As feelings of lack dissipate, the floodgates are blown open to abundance in all aspects. Needless obsessions and fears of money, career, and possessions dissolve. A once workaholic mindset becomes calm and balanced. Life purpose becomes a joy as it is a wonderful expression of the flow of life.
As the sacral chakra is rejuvenated, unhealthful cravings and addictions can melt away. Health is replenished and weight is balanced as self conscious thoughts dissolve. Once the sacral is healed; vibrant, healthy sexual energy is restored. Shame is removed, pleasure and delight fill the body. Feelings of security and confidence replace previous feelings of insecurity and self doubt. Women begin to naturally attract healthy, vibrant relationships with partners and friends. Exercise habits and sleep patterns run like clockwork.
As the solar plexus chakra is re-harmonized, all fears of power and control fade. These fears are replaced with authentic power and self control, free of shame or outside influences. Through the law of attraction, clients with clear solar plexus chakras begin to attract like minded relationships, based on mutual respect and trust; free of unnecessary competition or jealousy.
Bringing in your man, money and purpose through sexual healing.
Because ESH combines Sexological Bodywork with hypnotherapy and reiki, these chakras are thoroughly cleansed on the etheric and physical levels simultaneously. Hypno-therapeutic suggestions during orgasm implement new, more useful affirmations into the mind. The combination of all three modalities creates long lasting, thorough results. Because of its highly effective, efficient, transformative results, ESH is not for the faint of heart. It involves real commitment to transformation. A woman who undergoes ESH can expect her life to be completely transformed in a very short amount of time. She just might become the woman she has always hoped and strived to be. As all her fears and blocks are removed, she is powerfully vulnerable, intuitive and harmonized. She becomes grounded in her world, and fully present in her body and her relationships. Any self doubts or needs for approval are replaced with authentic power. ESH has changed the lives of real women, again and again. These women are changing their personal worlds and the entire planet at large. I am a living, breathing testament to the accuracy of these claims because I am one of these women.